Pearl of WisdoM # 3

Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising everytime we fall

~Confucious~

LiVe LiFe

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...

...it's about learning how to dance in the rain!

~anonymous~

Jejak Jogja: Lessons on Life

29 students and 3 lecturers from UiTM's Town & Regional Planning Department had gone for a study trip to Yogyakarta and Solo from 2 - 6 March 2009. During the five days trip, the group managed to forged closer ties with planning students from Universitas Gadjah Mada and made two presentations about planning system and urban design in Malaysia. Students and staff from UGM had warmly welcome the UiTM's group. The five days stay in Yogyakarta and a short day trip to Solo were not only filled with visits to interesting tourist destinations in the special region, but had also portrayed the Indonesian culture and heritage. Visting Borobudur, one of site listed in the UNESCO world heritage list as depicted in the photo above and going up to the Ketep Pass to have a glimpse of the Merapi volcano were the highlights of the trip. However, the midday rain and the fog at the mountain land made it impossible to view the volcano. See picture below.

The visit to Parangtritis beach to view the serenity of the sunset, the "andong" (horse carriage) ride to Puriwisata for dinner and watching the Ramayana theatre plus visits to royal palaces - the Mangkunegaran palace in Surakarta (Solo) & Kraton in Yogyakarta and the urban conservation site at Taman Sari had certainly made the five day's tour busy and interesting. Though the students learned a lot from the visit to UGM and the sightseeing and visiting tourist attraction places, one very important lesson that the students got from this visit is through observing the living conditions and the interactions they had with the ordinary people on the streets of Yogyakarta.

Malaysia and Indonesia might have many similarities, but had very different political system and governmental policies. As such our Indonesian cousins had not enjoy the type of development that we, in Malaysia had taken for granted. The most notable difference experienced by visitors to the Java island the moment they step out of the airport is the high density of people, compactness of the buildings and narrowness of the streets. People seems to be everywhere, some busy at work, many on the move, some are doing whatever they can to earn a living ... to the extent of begging ... and many more just seems to be doing nothing but passing time. The high proportion of poor people is reflected in the urban fabric .. for example, the trishaw that has became obsolete in Malaysian cities is still heavily used by people as cheaper means of transportation, besides being used for "wisata" (tourism) .. together with the "andong" (horse-carriage). As the world's fourth largest country in terms of population (after, China, India and USA), Indonesia certainly depicts the crisis described by Paul Earlich (1968) in his book "The Population Bomb". This is especially true in the island of Java where 60 percent of the Indonesian population stays. The government's transmigration policy that aims at bringing people to other islands like Kalimantan, Sulawesi, Sumatera etc. has not translated well in practice. Javanese would not want to leave the Java land ... no matter how difficult life is in the disaster-prone island.

The Bachelor in Town & Regional Planning 08 students who went for "Jejak Jogja" had seen how people are making whatever they can to earn a living. Surely they will not forget being chased by the "asungan" sellers at Borobudur who would be willing to offer unbelievably low prices that had tempted many students to buy the souvenirs. The ever willing "amen" singers and musician who would use anything ... from a guitar to just bottles and sticks to entertain customers along Malioboro street, in the heart of Yokyakarta. Not to mention the sad encounters with beggers on the streets. The local authority had to put up signs as below to curb the situation. Wherever we go, there will always be someone (at times many such persons) who would offer any form of service ... parking guide, crossing street etc. etc ... for a small amount of money ... just to earn a living!

The "Jejak Jogja" project initiated by the BTRP 08 (Dec'08-Apr"09) students has certainly been a fruitful effort. Besides learning the differences in the planning system, the urban form and visiting interesting tourist attractions in daerah istimewa Yokyakarta and Surakarta, the experience about life through walking the streets of Jogja is the most priceless lesson that the students could learn ... this certainly cannot be taught through lectures in the classroom. Finally, the friendship that were forged with the UGM's students & staff and also the cheerful Pak Karjo, the tourist guide and the wonderful "mas-mas" from Jom Jalan Travel had certainly made the five-days stay a memorable one.

Pearl of WisdoM # 2

A house is not a home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body.

~Benjamin Franklin~

Human Capital

Excerpt from Professor Dr Ibrahim Abu Shah, UiTM's vice-chansellor's introductory remarks in Pearls of Wisdom ... in conjunction with UiTM's 50th. anniversary in 2006

"Our graduates can be compared to PEARLS - a precious commodity to be treasured, admired and appreciated by all. In this regard, they are also human capital of distinction, capable of attaining the highest standards of excellence in their personal development and thereby contributing to national development."

myremarks:

... to be a pearl ... what does it take? First, have a pure heart, one that has lots of love to give. Next, learn, learn and learn ... life itself is full of valuable lesson ... if only one see, hear and observe ...

Pearl of WisdoM # 1

Nearly ALL men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him PoweR.

~ Abraham Lincoln~

PeLAYARAN kITa

Ku serakkan tautan kiambang

Sebelum ku jejaki gelombang
Jika tak ku temu kekuatan

Ku ratib semangat kebangkitan

Lautan bergelora

Tidak gentar ku rempuhi
Pelayaranku,

biar tenggelam tak melara

Perjuanganku,

sinarnya membelah samudera

petikan lirik lagu Samudera nyanyian Nora, lirik ditulis oleh Ahmad Fedtri

Moulding THE Future Human - WHO's job?

WHO knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themSELVES? WHO knows ... ? WHO knows of the possibilities of love when men and women share not only children, home and garden, not only the fulfilment of their biological roles, but the RESPONSIBILITIES and PASSIONS of the work that creates the HUMaN future.

Source: Betty Friedan (1963), The Feminine Mystique, Penguin Books, England, p.331

Way to Live

Source: Arnold Toynbee (1970), Cities on the Move, Oxford University Press, p.247

About eight thousand or perhaps ten thousand years ago, our ancestors transformed themselves from vagrant food-gatherers, hunters, and fishermen into sedentary tillers of the soil and breeders and sheperds of livestock. Their survival of this previous testing transformation is a precedent that offers us grounds for hope that we, in our turn, may be going to survive our own ordeal. ... Since our ancestors rose to the occasion, we, their decendents, are presumably capable of emulating them if we display the courage, vision, and inventiveness that were our ancestors salvation.

shh....Let's Listen

Source: Mary King (1999), The Intuitive Voice: Your Guide to Successful Living, Ringwood, Victoria: Brolga Publishing. pp. 19-20.
Intuition and logic are two sides of the same coin. There's a place and a need for both. We need to LEARN to accept each side. Letting go judgement is the key. Judging or criticising can stop us from hearing our intuitive voice.

Let's Look

The real voyage of discovery consists not in finding new lands but in seeing with new eyes

- Marcel Proust

NoThing is IMpossible

Source: Sheila B. Kamerman and Alfred J. Kahn (1984), Societal Learning in Work and Family: Changing Roles of Men and Women edited by Patricia Voydanoff, Palo Alto, California: Mayfield Publishing Co. p. 345

It is POSSIBLE for adults to work and still build strong families. It is POSSIBLE for mothers and fathers to share work and home responsibilities. It is POSSIBLE for them to draw upon extensive child care services to help them in this, without sacrificing any of their rights and duties as parents. All this POSSIBLE, but only if the work world, along with government and communities ADAPTS and COOPERATES

InDaH hari U & Me

Andai kasturi hilang harum,
Mawar tak berkuntum,
Cinta tak bersambung
Biar emas setinggi gunung,
Kan ku peluk rimbun ampun
Rahmat yang Maha Agung


Sebahagian lirik lagu Nyanyian Serambi oleh Ramli Sarip

Mother Earth ... whose responsibility?

Source: Victor R. Savage (1984), Western Impressions f Nature and Landscape in Southeast Asia, Kent Ridge: Singapore University Press, p.13

... Included in this landscape concept are both the natural landscape such as mountains, rivers, seas. swamps and jungle, and the cultural landscape, which comprises the signature of human activity and creativity such as settlements, towns, cultivated lands, ruins and transportation networks.

The qualities and properties of the environment are a product of human consciousness. It is human beings who differentiate nature by defining it, colouring it, feeling it with emotions, systematizing and ordering it, and giving it meanings.

Hope & wisH

Ref: Jerry A. Jacobs and Kathleen Gerson (2004), The Time Divide: .. Cambridge, Harvard University Press. p. 6

In the BEST of all possible worlds, neither Mothers nor Fathers would be penalized for taking care of their children. And surely such a world would not penalize women more than men.

... Mothers and Fathers alike fear that family-friendly workplace policies come with significant strings attached.

changing TIMEs

Ref: Arlie Russell Hochschild (1997), The Time Bind: .. New York: Metropolitan Books (pp: 257-258)

The TIME experiment at ESI, Xerox, and Amerco involve modest, practical adjustments whose true lesson is that our time bind is not an immutable given but something we could alter. To make such changes, however, we have to DARE to want to change.

One thing we can learn is that small groups of people can bring about changes in culture and habit that an individual would NOT dare to attempt alone.

Any successful movement for social change begins with a VISION OF LIFE as it could be, with the notion that something potential could become REAL. So let's imagine ...

Let's imagine PTA meetings to which a large majority of the parents came, libraries where working parents can afford to devote their spare time to reading or literacy programs, and community gardens in which they and their CHILDren have the leisure to grow fresh vegetables. Picture ...

BUT vision alone will not be ENOUGH. ..

Proceed nexT leVel

Dear lady can you hear the wind blow.

And did you know

Your stairway lies on the whispering wind.

And as we wind on down the road.

Our shadows taller than our soul.

There walks a lady we all know.

Who shines white light and wants to show.

How everything still turns to gold.

.. . part of Led Zeppelin's "Stairway to Heaven" lyrics, lyricists: Robert Plant and Jimmy Page

REAL teachERS

Teras ke-5 Pelan Induk Pendidikan M'sia (2006-2010) adalah "Memartabatkan profesion keguruan bagi memastikan profesion itu dipandang tinggi sesuai dengan amanah yang dipertanggungjawabkan dalam pembinaan generasi masa depan." (petikan dari akhbar Utusan M'sia 21/1/2007).

TEACHing is certainly a noble profession and everyone of us is playing the teacher role in some way or other in our daily life. Moulding the young minds to become useful, responsible beings on this earth needs teachers who not only have lots of passion and patience, but also uphold outstanding moral virtues. Jgn jd spt pepatah melayu yg mengatakan "seperti KETAM mengajar anak ... "

REAL Dreams

My shadow's the only one that walks beside me
My shallow heart's the only thing that's beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me
'Til then I walk alone
Im walking down the line
That divides me somewhere in my mind
On the borderline of the edge
And where I walk alone
Read between the lines of what's
screwed up and everything's alright
Check my vital SIGNS to know I'm still ALIVE

Part of Greenday's BLVD of Broken Dreams Lyric, Lyricist: Billie Joe

SINARi lah

... Dalam kesamaran ku rempuhi ranjau
Biarpun payah ku teruskan
Siapa memandang tidakkan ku hirau
Biarpun pedih ku tahankan
Menjelmalah bintang, Beri daku sinaran
Semoga hati ku cekal

Akan ku teruskan walau harus ditelan
Seribu nista di tangan
Terbanglah hai unggas bebas di awan
Agar kan tercapai sinar gemerlapan

Tuhan ku inginkan secebis harapan
Hanya padamu ku serahkan
Apakah kan ada ketulusan jiwa
Yang menilai ku seadanya ...

Petikan dari lirik lagu Secebis Harapan nyanyian NORA, penulis lirik: Noor